Comments on: …I want some fucking romance! http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/ "C-Section scars and stretch marks are not horrible. They are badges of honor, proof of membership in the best club in the world: Motherhood." Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:50:37 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: mrsfinn http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-1200 mrsfinn Wed, 03 Sep 2008 18:35:24 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-1200 hahahahahaha!!! you have NOOOO idea how funny that is.... i love this blog!! oh.. and don't let the "fertiles" bug you about the whole "fantasy baby" thing.... I have a full-fledged case of "happy-fluffy-bunny"!! And I'm a mom!!! Now, before you get that tendonitis reflex... I'm a mom of an "oops" when I was 19... suffering secondary infertility- been trying for 2 1/2 YEARS with my current hubby. Starting fertility treatments in October. And yes... I'm bitter, and yes, I absolutely HATE fertiles... even though, once upon a time, I was one... hahahahahaha!!! you have NOOOO idea how funny that is…. i love this blog!! oh.. and don’t let the “fertiles” bug you about the whole “fantasy baby” thing…. I have a full-fledged case of “happy-fluffy-bunny”!! And I’m a mom!!! Now, before you get that tendonitis reflex… I’m a mom of an “oops” when I was 19… suffering secondary infertility- been trying for 2 1/2 YEARS with my current hubby. Starting fertility treatments in October. And yes… I’m bitter, and yes, I absolutely HATE fertiles… even though, once upon a time, I was one…

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By: Lainey-Paney http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-73 Lainey-Paney Mon, 22 Oct 2007 19:07:48 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-73 keep your fantasies about having a child. because when you do have your kids----some of those visions really do come true. :) keep your fantasies about having a child.
because when you do have your kids—-some of those visions really do come true.

:)

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By: Jeff http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-70 Jeff Fri, 19 Oct 2007 20:27:59 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-70 Just like I said - similiar but vastly different circumstances. One day though - I have faith. Just like I said – similiar but vastly different circumstances. One day though – I have faith.

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By: kate http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-69 kate Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:30:43 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-69 Innocence? What the heck is that? I am so jaded and robbed, I wouldn't know what to do with innocence even if someone just came up and handed it to me. ugh. But that doesn't make you any less right. Right now, I am trying to romanticize a child-free life. It's not working. Innocence? What the heck is that? I am so jaded and robbed, I wouldn’t know what to do with innocence even if someone just came up and handed it to me.

ugh.

But that doesn’t make you any less right.

Right now, I am trying to romanticize a child-free life. It’s not working.

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By: Erin http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-68 Erin Thu, 18 Oct 2007 18:16:21 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-68 Jeff, you're right. We are in similar situations. In fact we both started parenting at the same point in our kid's lives. We're kick ass step parents if I do say so my self. :) The only difference between us is that you're having your own. And I'm not. One day though. :) Jeff, you’re right. We are in similar situations. In fact we both started parenting at the same point in our kid’s lives. We’re kick ass step parents if I do say so my self. :)

The only difference between us is that you’re having your own. And I’m not. One day though. :)

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By: persistentillusion http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-67 persistentillusion Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:21:57 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-67 Why would being infertile come up in casual conversation? Anyone who knows you should know better, right? I will say, the less 'romantic' conception gets - the more mechanical and unsatisfying the whole process becomes. So a definite kudos in assisting others to MYOB. Why would being infertile come up in casual conversation? Anyone who knows you should know better, right?

I will say, the less ‘romantic’ conception gets – the more mechanical and unsatisfying the whole process becomes. So a definite kudos in assisting others to MYOB.

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By: Jeff http://evilclomid.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-66 Jeff Thu, 18 Oct 2007 17:03:21 +0000 http://evilclomid.wordpress.com/2007/10/18/i-want-some-fucking-romance/#comment-66 Awesome post. I think you're right. You're lucky to have a different viewpoint than some women though - you have the experience of being a parent. And yes...you and I both know (being in similiar but vastly different circumstances) that having kids is not the same as having your own kids. Yes...it's still a joy. Yes - parenting is, or at least can be, stronger than blood. But. You know there's a but there. We want kids. We want our own kids. And we'll romanticize it if we like. In fact, if you're infertile, I think you need to romanticize it more - positive thinking goes a long way, in my opinion. Anyway...I hit a tangent. Good post. That's what I meant to say. Awesome post.

I think you’re right. You’re lucky to have a different viewpoint than some women though – you have the experience of being a parent.

And yes…you and I both know (being in similiar but vastly different circumstances) that having kids is not the same as having your own kids.

Yes…it’s still a joy. Yes – parenting is, or at least can be, stronger than blood. But.

You know there’s a but there.

We want kids. We want our own kids. And we’ll romanticize it if we like. In fact, if you’re infertile, I think you need to romanticize it more – positive thinking goes a long way, in my opinion.

Anyway…I hit a tangent.

Good post. That’s what I meant to say.

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